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I am a 37-year-old non-binary Latinx living in Finland. I am an artist-researcher working on the topic of neuroqueer intimacies. I enjoy learning languages, but I dislike wasabi. Additionally, I have a mole in the middle of my right foot. I am interested in dating all genders but have not had many good experiences with cis men. However, if you happen to be Pedro Pascal, I think we will have no problems.

I am non-monogamous, and I believe we should try to organize ourselves in ways that defy nuclear family. (I love my family, by the way, I just wish the way we practice care would not be so much funneled and centralized, creating affective inequalities.) I want to discover other ways of being together, but I am fed up with the queer white-centric bubbles of "safety" in the Nordic society. I want to engage with people with the time and availability to do so in whatever relational configuration they wish. I know many people that label themselves as relational anarchists yet I feel that many of them do not understand that sometimes their believes are charged with a careless view of relationality and that these overarching denominations often sideline ways of being in this world beyond Western ones. I may want kids in the future, and I want them to grow up in a shared environment.

I am Latinx and very attuned to the stereotype, in the sense I like to touch, kiss, hug, intensively. I can be soft and generally I am soft but looking forward to more intensive encounters that are not necessarily soft. I am neurodivergent. 420 friendly.

A date with me? We can, for instance, watch X-Files together, cuddle, kiss, and then have sex. Or go swimming by the sea, do some birdwatching. I am more and more interested in long-lasting connections, which involve us both laying down somewhere and thinking about the future, in the sense of: how can we do it differently? With softness yes, but also doing differently in a collective way that is not detached from the shit happening in this world.

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